Saturday, April 12, 2008

if you afraid of to divorce don't get mariied

it was almost four and i had to be at work five o clock. i had to head on the road. there was too much traffic. what a surprize ! it was a rush hour. anyway i sarted to think about divorced couples. increasingly married couples divorce evry year . people think they made a wrong choice so end up to divorce. no one makes a meet someone choice when they meet someone because all relationships are based trust until each party reveals themselves. we can never know someone in a short of time so we have to go on the superficial things like looks and communication until we get to know person's personality. later down the line ,when things do not work out , people then believe their relationship broke up because they were living with the wrong partners whom they should not married , or set up home with. they believe they made a costly 'mistake' and should have known better. i believe that people don't want to take a responsibilities . there is a easy way if it doesn't work out find new one. nobody trying to find the problem. instead of finding a problem to solve they are finding a new soulmate.

2 comments:

schital said...

Hi Levent, I think no one is perfect in this world. On that situation understanding helps a lot in their relationship.

Elaine Soffer said...

Yes, I guess people find it easier to find someone new and start over than put in the hard work it takes to make things better in their own marriage.
I'm surprised you can drive safely with all the thinking you do while you're driving!